1) When you see a woman walking along never looking your direction and supporting a prissy gaze on her face, she might be a wrong pick. A woman that meets your eyes and gives you a nice wholesome smile is far better. The ones that try to look sexy and absorb all the attention are really quite selfish. It's almost like holding a conversation with someone who talks too much or too little. It's very one sided.
2) If you're the one who always calls her and she never or rarely calls you, she's probably not a good pick. If she can't fathom in her head that receiving a call from her would be a thrill to you, then she probably isn't a good choice. Even if she's not calling because of some kind of hard to get game, it's still not a good idea. The best woman is the woman who is always thoughtful about your feelings, period. Another point is that it's always better to want a woman who likes you enough to WANT to call you, otherwise why invest your time in her?
3) When you're on a date and you just opened your passenger car door to let her in, as you walk around to get in on your side, you better see her reach across to unlock your door for you! This is a very serious test. In my own personal experience, most women who don't reach across to unlock the door are selfish and will make life totally miserable for you.
4) If you are always the one who has to hug her first or ask her to come sit by you she's a bad idea. A good woman will come up from behind and wrap her arms around you even when you don't ask for it. She WANTS to sit next to you. She doesn't play little games to try to make you chase her. A good woman will not say, "The man is supposed to make the first move." Good women know that men are human too. Your feelings are very important to a good woman.
5) So you give this girl you met flowers and you take her to all kinds of nice places and what does she do for you? Well, a good woman will bake you cookies, maybe invite you over for dinner or some other kind thing. If you're getting nothing in return, she might be a bad idea.
6) A good woman does not keep an army of "guy friends" she knows all would like to get up her skirt. If you come across a woman like this run for the hills. She will usually say something like, "I have more guy friends than girl friends. I don't get along with girls very well." The reality is she can have a whole lot more "boyfriends" if she calls them friends.
7) When you hear a woman say, "I don't care what a man looks like, personality is all that matters" be just a touch cautious. A woman like this may not want to express attraction for you because she wants control. She is supposed to be the attractive vision of desire and you're suppose to be the lucky bum that got her because you were just that sweet. Trust me, it is very unlikely that your average woman will give you time of day if she finds you extremely unattractive.
8) You walk up and tell her how beautiful she looks. Does she ever compliment you? Does she even say thank you? A good woman will pay attention to you and to the many things you do in life. A good woman isn't all about being "the vision of desire," she knows it's a RELATIONSHIP
, not some one sided modeling audition. She knows your schedule and she knows what you like and dislike. A good woman also cares about your appearance, she will offer to fix your shirt if the collar is messed up or let you know if you have something out of place.
9) When you ask a good woman what she wants in a relationship, you won't hear the word "I" in the list of answers. At least not in the majority of the list. In a relationship "WE" and "US" are better words.
10) When a good women gets angry with you, she's still reasonable. She doesn't let how she feels at that moment dictate how she feels for you in general. She isn't ruled by her emotions. She will not over react to get her way. A good woman's "way" is whatever makes both of you happy.
11) If you call a good woman in the middle of the night telling her you're car just broke down, she will come out and pick you up. A good woman will do things for you if you ask. If you find that you're the only one willing to do nice things or favors for a woman, I suggest losing her quickly.
12) A good woman will not try to change you. She will like you for who you are. This is very important because then you know she picked you because she likes YOU, not for who she wants you to be.
13) Balance is key in a relationship. Most everything I've mentioned so far desires a two way street or some form of equal fairness. Well sexuality is no exception. A good woman has a balance there too. A good woman, in my opinion is not a nymphomaniac who is vulgar and keeps a collection of sexual toys. On the other hand she doesn't act afraid of sex either. She has good moral values but that doesn't mean she has no desire.
14) A good woman will not threaten to break up with you over every disagreement. A good woman realizes that nobody agrees all the time and she's willing to compromise. A good woman cares about how you feel and will not play games to get her way. She wants you to be happy too, and because of this she prefers mutual decisions. To a good woman, a relationship is NOT a contest.
15) In picking a good woman it's just as important to know how she acts when she's out of love as it is when she's in love. Any woman can be sweet and fair minded when she loves a guy, the true test is when things aren't so great. For that reason, sometimes meeting a divorced woman is good. You can at least see how she deals with a man she doesn't agree with or maybe even has a strong dislike for. If she wants revenge and she attempts to take him far beyond what you consider reasonably fair, watch out for her. You might be the next victim. As soon as something doesn't go her way, you're in trouble!
16) When you get to the point where you and a woman decide to be together, it's very important to know what both of you want from the relationship. You might want sex and she might want security. You might want companionship, she might want your money. The two of you can want different things as long as your differences aren't conflicting. A woman with conflicting differences would be a bad pick. It's better if BOTH of you are getting what you want out of the relationship.
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